Just 3 Months To Attract Lasting
Love Without Relying on Dating
Apps or Pretending to Be Someone
You’re Not.
Attract The Love
You Deserve Using a Customized Relationship Strategy-Without Settling or Losing Yourself
Love On Purpose is a 90-day coaching experience designed for high-achieving women who want a clear, actionable, proven strategy to attract lasting love without losing your values, relying on dating apps, or pretending to be someone you’re not.
Love On Purpose is a 90-day coaching experience designed for high-achieving women who want a clear, actionable, proven strategy to attract lasting love without losing your values, relying on dating apps, or pretending to be someone you’re not.
You Know What You
Want In Love-Now Learn What’s
Been Blocking It
You’ve Solved So Many Problems In Life-So Why Does Attracting Lasting
Love Still Feel Like a Mystery?
Does Any of This Feel True
For You?
Your friends think you’ve got it all together, but
behind the scenes you’re secretly wondering if
real love is even possible.
You keep attracting the wrong men- or no one
at all- and can’t figure out why.
You’ve been ghosted one too many times and
keep asking “How can I be successful everywhere
else but in love?”
You’ve done the self-work—therapy, prayer,
books, podcasts—but nothing has truly changed
You’re tired of being told to “just soften” or “be more feminine” – that
only leaves you feeling more confused about who you really are.
If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone-and you’re absolutely not the problem.
Here’s The Truth
There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken. You’re not too much. And it’s not too late.
The truth is, high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to love blocks no one talks about. The very traits
that give you professional success—your ambition, independence, and take-charge attitude—can unintentionally
create hidden patterns and relational blindspots that block lasting love.
Without realizing it, you may be showing up as a “boss in love” or a “social work lover”- constantly helping, fixing,
or rescuing without realizing it’s pushing away the kind of man you desire.
What you’ve been missing isn’t effort—it’s a love strategy that honors your ambition, your values, and your
desire for a deeply fulfilling relationship.
From Solving Murder Mysteries to Solving Your Love Life-This is What I Do.
The Strategy That Changes
Everything
That’s exactly why I created The Love on Purpose Coaching Experience. A step-by-step
process designed specifically for high-achieving women that want more than another conversation
about love blocks.
Using the Custom Love Mapping system, we identify the emotional patterns and blindspots sabotaging your love life-and give you a customized strategy to shift how you show up and finally attract the aligned, lasting relationship you’ve been praying for.
At the heart of this transformative experience is The Love Blueprint, a personalized assessment
that reveals your unique love blind spots and relational blocks.
Client Success
Toni F.
Her Blindspots: Hyper independence. Extreme Mistrust
Her Experience: Attracting inconsistent men. Making her feel like she was constantly “on guard,” waiting for the other shoe to drop. So she set the bar so high no man could ever reach it.
Her Outcome: She’s in a relationship with a man who values her strength and makes her feel safe enough to be vulnerable.
In Her Own Words:
"Stacey, I used to think I had to protect myself from love. Now I know I just needed to heal how I was showing up in it. You helped me stop overcorrecting for past hurt—and showed me how to create real connection.
Finally, a Clear Answer to What’s
Been Blocking Your Love Life
Forget the guesswork, generic advice, or trial and error.
The Love Blueprint is a proven assessment that uncovers the emotional and behavioral patterns quietly
shaping your relationships and the type of men you attract, without you even realizing it.
Once you understand what’s been operating beneath the surface, everything about
your love life changes for the better.
What Successful
Women
Are Saying
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Stacey it's only been a few weeks and I actually attracted somebody different. I feel so hopeful and free. Thank you.
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The struggle was real Stacey. I was exhausted by the games. This helped me stop wasting time. Grateful.
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"OMG! What you taught me, it’s actually working. Fast forward and I’m dating a man with potential. I'm so happy. Thank you!
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“I considered myself self-aware but quickly realized I had
been missing the most
important piece of the love
puzzle all along.”
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“It’s so good to know nothing is
wrong with me!!! Two ghostings
killed my confidence. Thank you
for being the person who could
finally make it all make sense.
That alone was worth the
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My only regret is I should have learned this sooner.
This is the clarity Better late than never.”
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Can’t believe at this big age and divorced, I finally know what’s been tripping me up in love. No more guessing. No more repeating the same mistakes.Thank you!!
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What You’ll Learn in the Love On
Purpose Program
In this 90 day group coaching experience, you’ll uncover the hidden emotional patterns and relational blindspots that have been blocking your love life and gain the tools you need to create a meaningful, fulfilling relationship.
Designed for high-achieving women like you, this program provides a proven methodology grounded in
spiritual and emotional clarity—equipping you to attract the lasting love
you truly deserve.
Here’s What You’ll Learn
Clarity on what’s been keeping you stuck, confidence in how to shift it, and the steps to
finally attract the right relationship.
Discover Your Love Blueprint
Begin your journey by taking The Love Blueprint
Assessment to uncover your unique Love Blind
Spots and Emotional Operating System. This
powerful tool will give you clarity on the
unconscious patterns that have been keeping
you stuck, helping you understand the root
causes of your relationship struggles. With this
newfound insight, you’ll no longer have to
choose between love and your identity.
Identify Your Relationship Blocks
Uncover the emotional blocks and relational
patterns that have been holding you back from
attracting the love you deserve. You’ll gain
clarity on what you truly want and need in a
relationship, break free from toxic cycles, and
stop self- sabotaging healthy connections out
of fear. With this understanding, you’ll finally be
clear and confident in your dating decisions.
Releasing the
Baggage
Release the emotional baggage from past
relationships, making space for the healthy,
fulfilling love you deserve. You’ll work through
the emotional triggers and limiting beliefs
that have been lingering from past
experiences, preventing you from fully
embracing new love. As you let go of this
baggage, you’ll feel empowered, clear, and
emotionally ready for a relationship that aligns
with your true desires.
Setting Boundaries and Embracing Vulnerability
Develop a deep sense of self-worth, allowing
you to set healthy boundaries that create
space for vulnerability and deeper emotional
intimacy. By becoming more aligned with your
femininity and faith, you’ll learn how to show
up authentically and confidently in relationships.
Start experiencing emotional safety and
intimacy in your connections, where you feel
seen, heard, and valued.
Cultivating Confidence and Attracting the Right Partner
Amplify your confidence by aligning your inner
transformation with your outer presence. You’ll
learn how the way you carry yourself influences
not only how others perceive you, but how you
see yourself. By embracing your unique beauty
without the need to conform to societal
standards, you’ll feel powerful and comfortable
in your own skin—creating an openness that
naturally invites the love you truly want.
Soul
Mate Strategy
Gain a clear vision of the type of relationship
you want and the personalized strategies to
make it a reality. You’ll discover how your
romantic relationships are a reflection of your
self-love and learn how to embody the
qualities that attract the right partner. With the
confidence and strategies you’ll gain, take
intentional action toward creating the lasting
love you truly deserve-transforming your belief
in love into real results.
Client Success
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
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Camille R.
Her Blindspots: Over-functioning. Imaginative. Tolerant
Her Experience: She kept falling for men with potential, imagining how she could change him or fix him. Putting in all her effort with nothing but disappointment in return.
Her Outcome: She’s now in a relationship with a man who didn’t need fixing or rescuing and can actually support her goals & dreams.
In Her Own Words:
"This program was a mirror I didn’t know I needed. Stacey, thank you for helping me shift from fixing to receiving. I’m finally with someone who shows up without me having to coach him into it."
More Than Just Growing-It’s About Becoming the Woman Who Attracts The Right Partner
Love On Purpose is more than just personal growth—it’s about
becoming the woman who naturally attracts the right partner, someone who aligns with your values and goals, without compromising who you are.
It’s time to renew your belief in love and experience real results.
So If
You’re
Ready For…
A proven methodology grounded in spiritual and emotional
clarity.
Real time insight into your unique blind spots-backed by behavioral tools.
A coach who gets high-functioning women and meets them with grace, without judgment.
Support to break toxic patterns and stop shrinking.
Accountability and compassion without fluff or shame.
Tangible shifts in how you show up in love-with results to match.
Real Results You Can Expect
Finally understand
why relationships
haven’t worked in
the past.
Attract and keep
love without
sacrificing who
you are.
Feel confident,
soft, and secure
in your romantic
life.
Trust yourself
and your choices
in love again.
Stop wasting
time with men
who aren’t aligned
or available.
This is the transformation you’re ready for-so you can experience the love you desire.
Client Success
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
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Jana L.
Her Blindspots: Controlling. Emotional Detachment
Her Experience: Not attracting anyone. The few dates she had never went anywhere. Deep down, she was terrified of being truly seen.
Her Outcome: For the first time in years, she’s dating a high-value man and actually enjoying the process.
In Her Own Words:
OMG Stacey, this changed everything. Now I finally know what was blocking me in love and to date a man who truly gets me. Thank you so much.
Meet Stacey
Hey, I’m Stacey
I grew up solving murder mysteries. My dad was an undercover homicide
detective, and from an early age, I learned how to analyze clues and
uncover hidden patterns—skills I now use to help ambitious women like you
figure out why attracting true love feels so hard.
As a relationship strategist, I understand what it’s like to be successful in
every area of life—except love. I’ve been there: building my career, achieving
my goals, but still stuck in frustrating relationship patterns.
What I’ve learned is that we all have relational blindspots that will block true love.
Now, after being in a fulfilling marriage for over a decade, I guide women like you through the process of understanding these patterns, breaking free from old cycles, and learning how to attract the love that truly aligns with who you are.
Now that we’ve met and you understand how I can help, it’s time to take the next step.
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What’s Included
The Love Blueprint Assessment
Gain personalized insights into your love patterns and blindspots, identifying what’s been holding you back from the relationship you desire.
6 personalized group coaching sessions
Each designed to guide you step-by-step toward lasting transformation, with actionable tools to implement immediately.
Real-time feedback and support
Via a dedicated Group Me, providing continuous guidance and accountability throughout your journey.
Exclusive community
You’re not just getting access to Stacey’s expert coaching, you’re gaining a powerful support system of like-minded women who share your goals, offering continuous support and inspiration.
Ongoing accountability
Weekly check-ins to ensure you stay on track with personalized support to empower your decisions and strategies.
Plus Bonus Resources
Directions to Destiny:
Roadmap to Love
A comprehensive guide to help you map out your
personal journey toward attracting the love you
deserve. This step-by-step roadmap will help you
set clear goals, identify the right actions, and stay
aligned with your vision of love.
Rest Well Book
Focus on self-care and emotional resilience with
this bonus book. Learn how to restore your energy,
build emotional strength, and stay grounded
throughout your love journey—an essential
resource for high-achieving women balancing
career and relationships.
Real Women, Real Results
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Client Success
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
“The Love Blueprint was a game-changer for me. I had no idea why my relationships were always dead ends. Now I finally understand why. Within weeks I started attracting higher-quality men.”
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Vanessa T.
Her Blindspots: Over-giving. People Pleasing.
Her Experience: Having to be the emotional anchor in every relationship—always giving more and getting less. She was emotionally exhausted and ready to give up on love.
Her Outcome: She stopped leading with service and started leading with self-worth. She is happily married to a man who reciprocates and respects her.
In Her Own Words:
"Stacey, I didn’t even realize why I kept attracting such low effort men. You gave me the clarity—and the courage—to stop doing so much emotional labor for men who could never be what I actually wanted.
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